A common complaint of parents is the frequent fussing and fighting that occurs between their children. The scenario typically develops like this: one starts it all with an unkind word or deed, the other responds in kind, and the fight is on. Before it is over, the words have become meaner, the blows have become harder, and tempers have flared higher. Usually these serious fights result over some amazingly petty and insignificant things. And, or course, there’s always the “tattling” and accusations concerning who is at fault. All in all, it is a pretty ugly thing.
Spiritual brothers often exhibit the same propensity for fighting. The similarities are truly striking! Think about it: it’s usually started by an unkind word or deed; words become harsher; tempers get involved; it is usually over something that is very insignificant; there’s always the name calling and finger pointing coupled with gossip and rumoring. All in all, it is a pretty ugly thing.
The important ‘bottom line’ is that God commands us to be better than this. That goes for our relationships in the family and in the church. Parents hope that the problems with their children will be overcome with teaching and maturity. It is certain that problems among brethren can only be avoided in the same way.
“Be kindly affectioned one to another with brotherly love.” (Romans 12: 10). Think!
– by Greg Gwin