The classified section of most local newspapers has been replaced almost entirely by ‘online’ ads. For instance, the old ‘For Singles Only’ section in the newspaper has been traded for online dating services, but the concept is still primarily the same. Individuals looking for companionship by members of the opposite sex make their posts there. Most of the ads are fairly similar. People describe themselves as “attractive, fun loving, emotionally well-balanced, and financially secure”. They are seeking to meet a person who is “sincere, considerate, down-to-earth, affectionate, romantic, honest, well-adjusted, intelligent, ambitious, caring, sensitive, professional, gentle, etc.” You get the idea fairly quickly that these folks are down right picky about the person they want to meet. Many of the ads specify age, height, weight, hair color, etc.
One interesting ad was reported to us. In listing the desired qualities of a prospective mate, this one said, “height – average; eyes – no more than two; hair – not required”! While most ads were very picky, this one was not at all.
These two extremes can illustrate a point. In matters relating to this life folks are generally very picky. They know what they want, and are not timid about demanding it. Why is it that in religion these same folks will allow anything and everything? If things of this world deserve careful attention, why not the things that pertain to the world which is to come? And what about the one who had no requirements at all? With such standards anyone can find a mate, but who would want him/her? We need to be picky about some things. Religion is one of those things (Col. 3:17). Think!
– by Greg Gwin